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I'm Kaylene. I love God, and I love people. 


As a girl I daydreamed about falling in love, getting married, having a family, and all that good stuff. (Yes, I was the girl who owned a bride dress-up kit by the age of six). But as I grew, this daydream turned into an interest, which turned into a passion for studying relationships.


After getting my Master's degree in Family Science, becoming a Family Life Educator, and a few years teaching at the university level, I discovered the joy in passing along what I had learned about the nature of interpersonal relationships to others who wanted to expand their relationship "tool kit" the same way I did.

This blog has come to be the gathering place of various bits of wisdom I have gathered though my professional studies, personal interest, and lived experience. 

Through it all, I am reminded of one central truth: marriage is sacred, and is a mirror of Christ's love for us. By learning more about it, not only are we investing in our own relationships - we are learning more about how God wants to relate to us, too.

This is the divine reflection.

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July 9, 2018

Intimacy. It’s the heart of marriage, and is arguably the very purpose for why God created this divine reflection in the first place - it’s a clue that perhaps our desire for closeness mirrors God’s desire as well.

And to be perfectly honest, intimacy in marriage is a n...

June 18, 2018

It’s a very simple trick, which is nice because most of the time, relationships are anything BUT simple, (am I right?!) So let’s dive in! This strategy is great to use any time you need to double check what someone means, what someone’s intentions are, or how you hav...

May 14, 2018

During our first 2 years together, my husband and I found ourselves having the same conversation over and over.  And it always ended with us (okay, usually me) in tears and both of us reassuring one another that we really did love each other.  

The problem was that we w...

May 1, 2018

I recently answered a question on Quora that asked “what are important questions to ask your partner before getting married?” The more I thought about it, the more questions came to mind. Pretty soon, my list was over 80 questions long! That was too many. So instead I...

July 7, 2017

Not talking together, not sex, not going to church together, not ANYTHING can unite your two hearts, solve your problems, increase intimacy, and attend to your daily spiritual needs the way that praying together does. Make it a priority from the beginning, because it&...

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